Bodhitree

Here is what spouse has told me about affair:
Went out to dinner with him at restaurant.
Ate dinner at his house two times.
Contact with him was only over two week period. -Cell phone records support this time frame.
She told him to quit texting and calling since d day and says she has no contact with him at work. Cell phone activity shows no texts or calls since d day.
Has come home at normal hours of work since d day- nothing out of ordinary here.
Says she did not have any sexual encounters with him.
Says he tried to kiss her and she rejected.
Says she was into the attention he was giving her because I wasn't and that it was not a PA.
She admitted to lying about where she was on each of three times she was with him.
Had opportunity to stay the night with him on one of the nights- I had told her not to f***king come back home because she wasn't calling me back - but she came back home.
Hates to talk to me about it but still manages to do so when I bring up the affair.
Now the hard part- how in the hell do I know what is true and what isn't? At this point does it even matter given what she has told me. If she was still lying or there was still more to it wouldn't she have made up lies about her whereabouts during affair- there would be no way for me to know the truth. At this point, I am focused on knowing MORE details rather than less. But its been three months and this is what she has told me. We are in MC and trying to recover but I keep thinking there is more she isn't telling me. How long do I pursue asking her more questions only to get same answers that nothing more happened?. WHAT ELSE DO I NEED TO KNOW? Thanks for any input.