Originally Posted by tater03
I would have to agree that you need to get on anti depressants. Maybe if they help with the depression you are feeling you might be able to look at things more clearly. I would have to say that he is controlling you and you have to put your foot down and not let him treat you this way or it will just get worse. I hope things get better for you here in the near future.
I completely agree with Tater. Going on antidepressants alone certainly won't fix your marriage, but they will give you a little perspective and help you to stop racing thoughts and definitely help you to sort out your feelings. One thing you should remember is that the antidepressants will not start to work immediately. It will take a little while, perhaps a few weeks, for the medicine to build up to a level that is therapeutic. You will begin to feel better then. Good luck to you.