Nurse2008 like you told me, only you know what's good for you. I think one good thing to come of your situation is you found out before he REALLY crossed the line. Yes he's wrong for becoming emotionaly involved with this woman but I think Tragic made some good points about communication. I'm glad you and your husband are trying to work it out, but like you told me, sometimes the answer isn't always the one you want. Keep an eye on his activities (love that spyware

) and just be ready to do what ever is necessary to make sure you and your children are in a healthy and loving enviornment, even if that means you have to go it alone. You'll know when you've had enough.
Just remember you're strong and you can make it.
