Well, here is what I said.
After careful thought, I have decided to accept that your feelings have changed. I've made peace with this. If you want out, it's ok. I don't want to try to keep you in a relationship that you don't want to be in. You are free to go. Don't misunderstand what I'm saying. This is not a threat, ultimatum, or me asking for an answer to the situation. If you choose to believe that you could love me the way you used to, then we'll talk. I don't want to be in a lifelong relationship with someone who doesn't love me fully, just like you don't want to be in a relationship that makes you feel trapped. I know you won't make a decision either way, unless you are sure you were making the right choice. We've had some great memories and you were my first real love. If we go our separate ways, I want to remember you that way. You won't need to worry about me. I have my friends and family. Not to mention God's got my back. I'll pray that he guides you and helps you find true happiness. Talk to you, later.
Take care,
I tried to be as confident as I could. I didn't want to come off angry and I hope I didn't. I was direct but I felt I needed to be. I am hoping this will take some pressure off of her. She actually sent me a text message out of the blue today. All it said was "I love you". I sent one back saying "I know". She won't get the email till tomorrow. Hope this will help things turn around. I feel my self respect and confidence starting to return and it feels great. I don't believe she wants me any other way. Let me know what you think. I really appeciate you (amp) and everyone else who is helping me with this. I will keep you posted and I hope things are going well for you.
