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Amplexor · 03-11-2008, 12:59 PM

Sounds like s familiar story for lots of spouses. You have missed being there for your wife for along time. It will take a long time for her to accept your “changes”. This is not an overnight thing and it could take months, maybe a year or more. Strap in for the long haul and make sure you commit to your changes. Also make sure you can live with them from here on out. Don’t crowd or smother her. Let things take a natural course and don’t push for answers. That she is willing to give it time is good. Time is your ally not your enemy. If she is involved in an emotional affair that will complicate it. You’ll need to try and better understand that relationship. It might be detrimental to your own but you will need to accept it for a while until you really know what it is. If she is in an emotional affair she will have to end contact with him in order to move back to you. These things can work out, keep your faith. Good luck

03-11-2008, 12:59 PM	#2 (permalink)
Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 511	Re: She's lost that loving feeling... Sounds like s familiar story for lots of spouses. You have missed being there for your wife for along time. It will take a long time for her to accept your “changes”. This is not an overnight thing and it could take months, maybe a year or more. Strap in for the long haul and make sure you commit to your changes. Also make sure you can live with them from here on out. Don’t crowd or smother her. Let things take a natural course and don’t push for answers. That she is willing to give it time is good. Time is your ally not your enemy. If she is involved in an emotional affair that will complicate it. You’ll need to try and better understand that relationship. It might be detrimental to your own but you will need to accept it for a while until you really know what it is. If she is in an emotional affair she will have to end contact with him in order to move back to you. These things can work out, keep your faith. Good luck __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.