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True Blue · 03-11-2008, 04:38 PM

Sounds like you played your part and you know this so I'm not going to harp on it. It's never too late to realize you made mistakes and try to repair your marriage. You've been married a long time and over the years your actions may have led your wife to the way she feels. The breakdown in your marriage didn't happen over night and won't get better right away. I think you should find a therapist you both can see together and and seek individual therapy as well. You sound like you really love her and you want to remain married, so hold onto that and be ready to put in the work. With that said she has to want to put in the work too and if she doesn't you can't hold onto someone who doesn't want to be held. I wish you the best.

03-11-2008, 04:38 PM	#5 (permalink)
True Blue Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 33	Re: My Wife does not Like Me Sounds like you played your part and you know this so I'm not going to harp on it. It's never too late to realize you made mistakes and try to repair your marriage. You've been married a long time and over the years your actions may have led your wife to the way she feels. The breakdown in your marriage didn't happen over night and won't get better right away. I think you should find a therapist you both can see together and and seek individual therapy as well. You sound like you really love her and you want to remain married, so hold onto that and be ready to put in the work. With that said she has to want to put in the work too and if she doesn't you can't hold onto someone who doesn't want to be held. I wish you the best.