When my kids were born, I breastfed them, which made it more difficult for my husband to "bond" with them. However, he came up with a great idea. He bathed them, I fed them. In fact, I never bathed my kids until my oldest was about 2 and had a HUGE blowout. He wasn't home. That was the first time I bathed hime. Maybe your husband could take care of that for you. It would give him special time with the baby and take one thing off your to-do list.
