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draconis · 03-11-2008, 10:04 PM

twoblave ~ I like the jist of what you wrote just not how you wrote it. I think the first and last thing mentioned should have been your love with the sandwich of you will accept any decision and you are in a firm place to handle it in the middle. I do not know it you sent out your letter yet.

The letter is a risk but so is talking. The letter can be disected and she might understand it to be anything she wants it to mean. When talking you might not seem as strong, passionate, mature, etc that you want her to see and lets face it you might fall apart, get emotional, angry or resentful. But in the end you know yourself better then we ever can.

I would think if you trust yourself that talking would be a better way to go if she will spend the time with you. If not then the letter will work as I believe any communication is better then no communication.

draconis

03-11-2008, 10:04 PM	#12 (permalink)
draconis Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: North East Posts: 3,730	Re: On the verge of losing her. twoblave ~ I like the jist of what you wrote just not how you wrote it. I think the first and last thing mentioned should have been your love with the sandwich of you will accept any decision and you are in a firm place to handle it in the middle. I do not know it you sent out your letter yet. The letter is a risk but so is talking. The letter can be disected and she might understand it to be anything she wants it to mean. When talking you might not seem as strong, passionate, mature, etc that you want her to see and lets face it you might fall apart, get emotional, angry or resentful. But in the end you know yourself better then we ever can. I would think if you trust yourself that talking would be a better way to go if she will spend the time with you. If not then the letter will work as I believe any communication is better then no communication. draconis