JustMe

Hi Kysmom!
Honestly, I don't think I could live like that in a marriage. I can completely understand needing a "guys night" even once a week. No biggie. But 3 or 4 nights a week?? What would he do if you came up with the same "rule" for yourself? (Not that you would) I don't think it matters how many compliments we get from other men; if our husband isn't interested in us, it's a total ego killer. I think even individual counseling is a great idea. If anything it may help you fell a little better about yourself. I'm not telling you what to do, but were I in your shoes, I think it would be time for him to decide whether the actions you decribed are worth losing you. I worry that soon you won't have much "you" left and you won't have the energy/self esteem to do anything about it. I hope things get better for you! Keep posting if you need to!
~Sarah