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swedish · 03-12-2008, 10:21 AM

I would recommend reading the 5 love languages. It's frustrating when you are doing what you think should make her happy but if it's not working, she's either thinking your attempts are not genuine (but self-serving to get what you want) or she's given up on the idea of a happy marriage. You seem frustrated that you can't have a quick fix, but it took a long time to get where you are today...I would read the 'losing the love of my life' post by blind...he understands that he needs to be selfless at this point because his wife is not in a position to want to work on things at the moment.

03-12-2008, 10:21 AM	#12 (permalink)
swedish Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Near Chicago Posts: 1,177	Re: My Wife does not Like Me I would recommend reading the 5 love languages. It's frustrating when you are doing what you think should make her happy but if it's not working, she's either thinking your attempts are not genuine (but self-serving to get what you want) or she's given up on the idea of a happy marriage. You seem frustrated that you can't have a quick fix, but it took a long time to get where you are today...I would read the 'losing the love of my life' post by blind...he understands that he needs to be selfless at this point because his wife is not in a position to want to work on things at the moment.