Advise needed
I've been with my partner for nigh on 6years now.
I cheated on her for over a year with my ex wife.
We managed to stay together and are still working things out.
(all this happened over 3yrs ago).
Over the last 3 yrs we always maintained a healthy and fulfilling sex life.
Recently (2 1/2months ago) we just stopped having sex. My partner says that she has lost her libido. She also says that she still wants sex and still has all the urges but cant pyshically have sex with me.
This is a major problem for me as we always had an amzing sex life and both had high sex drives.
My partner says there isn't a problem and that it will just come back. I know this may sound harsh but i dont believe her. She will not go see the GP as she's too scared.
Since the last time we had sex i cant even touch her anymore. She won't kiss me and I feel she doesn't want to even cuddle me.
Does anyone think that she hasn't lost her libido and just doesnt fancy me anymore but cant bare telling me. Or...
Does she really have a problem?
I feel that if she'd lost her libido she wouldn't even be having sexual urges (dont know for sure as its never happened to me).
Any help or advise on this would be most appreciated
Ben
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