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James-son - are the marriage weekend, cruise and vacation what you want or are they what she needs? Take my advice for what it is worth but I would be careful not to put your wants before her needs right now. This is especially true if there are further issues that aren't in the open just yet. I hope her counseling gives you both some more information as to what the issues are. Read the book you ordered. It will help give you some perspective. Don't expect miracles in a month or two. Best of luck and take care.

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