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Old 03-12-2008, 05:19 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Default Re: Any Advice would be helpful

You need to have the talk with your husband but maybe just to see where the relationship is going. Get a better understanding of both of your feelings. He obviously has some sexual issues and may need time to sort them out. If he has been true to you then that is a good sign. If you have read my rants on porn you’ll know my feelings about that and he must stop. It is hurting you no mater the sexual orientation. You should both seek professional counseling to help you with this problem. You do have two children to take care of and if the household is stable, loving and functioning well you owe it to them to go to the next step and try to work things out. Don’t let yourself get pulled into an affair. Work on the marriage then if it ends in divorce move on to someone who will fill your needs. An affair now is unfair to everyone including yourself. Please move towards counseling. Good luck.
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