twoblave

Self confidence is the key. Make sure you respect yourself and don't take all the blame. Amp is right. The more you chase the faster he will run. When he sees that you don't need him to be secure and happy he will drop his guard and rethink think things. My wife has seperated from me. Though I'm just starting to do the things I'm suggesting to you, I feel so much better. You may loose him you may not but it's better to go through this with pride and dignity, than self loathing and acting as if there is no tommorrow. You'll be scared no matter which course of action you take. Don't get angry either. It only makes things worse. Be calm, cool, and collected. If he wants his space, then so be it. Remember that God would rather see you triumph than fail. If you loose him then God has something better for you in your future. Keep your head up and things will work out for the best. No matter what. Pray and build your confidence. Move forward not backward. I'll say a prayer for you tonight.