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square1 · 01-25-2012, 05:36 PM

I did ask him why and at first he was just like I don't know. I said you have live on fb now for a while so you have a reason. After asking a few more times he said it was too much drama and trouble. And he didn't think he wanted to keep dealing with it. I told him the drama and trouble came from the random women he was friending and then texting. 2 of the women he does work with but the majority of their texts were not work related and he has agreed to only text them if it has to do with work. The women left on his fb are mutual friends so the rest are guys he knows from our hometown or his work friends that are men.

I feel the same way about the guilt trip you mentioned. Like he wants me to be the reason he deletes them so he can complain about it and me.

Oh and today I got a random delivery of flowers and he has been acting really nice and not saying anything mean, so maybe cause i didn't push for it he realized I wasn't trying to control him?

01-25-2012, 05:36 PM	#3 (permalink)
square1 Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 274	Re: trying to trick me into an argument?? I did ask him why and at first he was just like I don't know. I said you have live on fb now for a while so you have a reason. After asking a few more times he said it was too much drama and trouble. And he didn't think he wanted to keep dealing with it. I told him the drama and trouble came from the random women he was friending and then texting. 2 of the women he does work with but the majority of their texts were not work related and he has agreed to only text them if it has to do with work. The women left on his fb are mutual friends so the rest are guys he knows from our hometown or his work friends that are men. I feel the same way about the guilt trip you mentioned. Like he wants me to be the reason he deletes them so he can complain about it and me. Oh and today I got a random delivery of flowers and he has been acting really nice and not saying anything mean, so maybe cause i didn't push for it he realized I wasn't trying to control him?