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Acorn · 01-26-2012, 02:04 PM

Limbogirl, at least to me, your letter comes across very harsh. I am hearing that you are frustrated with his control of situations; I worry that you letter comes across very controlling as well.

I'd try something like this:

When you apologize for something and then repeat the same action you apologized for, I feel very disrespected and have a hard time trusting what you say since your actions don't back up your words. I want a relationship where we can trust one another. If you persist in telling me one thing and then doing another, I will have to admit to myself that I do not trust you and move on from the relationship.

Just my .02.

01-26-2012, 02:04 PM	#2 (permalink)
Acorn Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 1,241	Re: Communication Boundary Help Limbogirl, at least to me, your letter comes across very harsh. I am hearing that you are frustrated with his control of situations; I worry that you letter comes across very controlling as well. I'd try something like this: When you apologize for something and then repeat the same action you apologized for, I feel very disrespected and have a hard time trusting what you say since your actions don't back up your words. I want a relationship where we can trust one another. If you persist in telling me one thing and then doing another, I will have to admit to myself that I do not trust you and move on from the relationship. Just my .02.