| | Re: Communication Boundary Help
Limbogirl, at least to me, your letter comes across very harsh. I am hearing that you are frustrated with his control of situations; I worry that you letter comes across very controlling as well.
I'd try something like this:
When you apologize for something and then repeat the same action you apologized for, I feel very disrespected and have a hard time trusting what you say since your actions don't back up your words. I want a relationship where we can trust one another. If you persist in telling me one thing and then doing another, I will have to admit to myself that I do not trust you and move on from the relationship.
Just my .02.