Originally Posted by happyman64

Bmichael,
Do not make her wanting to separate or leave easy. She is just running as fast as she can from the marriage.
Do not sign anything regarding the money. Talk to an accountant. Then talk to an attorney. Otherwise she is going to leave you holding all the bills.

Go straight to a divorce. Do not bother with a separation. That is her idea so she can sit on a fence for a year to have fun while you sit at home babysitting your kids.

Call her out now. She wants a divorce. Fine. Go see an attorney and work out a custody arrangement. Do not waiver.

Let her see what she is going to lose.

Stop talking about you wanting to R when all she wants to do is run away from you, your kids and your marriage.

Go full steam ahead, do the 180 to get your head on straight and show her you have no fear.

If she still goes with the divorce then you have your answer and you will have saved yourself one year of heartbreak. You will also be one year ahead of no drama and year closer to finding a woman that shares your ideals of marriage loves a lot of kids too.

Be strong, be brave and call her bluff.
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