Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Hi, New Here...seeking some advice (married almost 12 years) Arguing all the time

kirablue · 03-12-2008, 11:47 PM

Hi Red, certainly I am not an expert, I do feel very strongly about what happened to you. First I will address one thing you said, you could have said no you said, yes BUT if he respected you, you should have never had to make that choice. You asked for advice on what you should or can do now, I cannot go any further than to ask this; this is all very recent, does he still want to "play"?

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kirablue Registered User Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 8	Re: Hi, New Here...seeking some advice (married almost 12 years) Arguing all the time Hi Red, certainly I am not an expert, I do feel very strongly about what happened to you. First I will address one thing you said, you could have said no you said, yes BUT if he respected you, you should have never had to make that choice. You asked for advice on what you should or can do now, I cannot go any further than to ask this; this is all very recent, does he still want to "play"? Last edited by kirablue; 03-12-2008 at 11:53 PM.