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Old 03-13-2008, 09:08 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Default Re: Advise needed

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Did the discontinuance of the snooping six months ago coincide with her loss of emotion and intimacy? If so she may had disconnected at that point. Not worrying about you straying anymore because she withdrew from the relationship. Think about events around that time to see if you remember something that might have changed her feelings. That she is willing to go to counseling is great. Good luck

Things got much better when she started to trust me more. We are close to the point that we have been known to know what each other is thinking and predict what the other is gonna do or say.

Its purely the affection and intimacy thats the problem.
She still says she needs to know every little detail of what happened when i cheated on her but wouldnt that make things 10 times worse?
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