Originally Posted by duchesspink
can i just remind you that the excitement and loved up feelings you are getting right now with the OW are exactly what you will have had with your wife when you first met.
It doesn't last, it isn't love. Its chemistry within your own body reacting to the excitement of a new relationship.
You will get it in every single walk of life. It feels so strong its untrue but how will you feel in a year if you've left your marriage and suddenly find that the rose tint has disappeared and that high need for the ow has dropped. I bet you'll be sorry that you thought the grass was greener.
I've experienced that rush and yes it feels like love. I've experienced it in every relationship i've ever had but I can assure you that within a year, it won't be there. You'll be onto the next phase where the chemical reaction doesn't happen anymore.
great article on it here Is Love or Lust More Powerful?
I hear you, but truth is, I did NOT have this rush with my W when we first dated...in fact, my gut told me all along the way to end it but I just kept going because I convinced myself that "just ok" was the
Best I was going to do...i know life with OW is not going to be all rainbows, I know this euphoria ends... Posted via Mobile Device