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Old 01-29-2012, 02:26 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Default Re: Desperately want to end wife's affair

In order to recover the marriage she has to prove to you that she can be trusted.

She has to agree to no contact with the OM. She has to write a no-contact letter for you to send to the OM.

She has to give you her passwords for all of her computer accounts and her cell phone. IT's a good idea to tell you that you will put a keystroke tracker on the computer.

She has to agree to total transparency because it's the only way you will trust her ever again... she has to prove, over time, that she can be trusted.
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