Originally Posted by xintexas
I do appreciate the advice. I have played it cool, but am tired of playing along with it. I don't want it to evolve into a physical relationship.
I have read more on these forums and can comfortably say that:
1 - our love life is phenomenal (I usually let my wife have her cookies before I get mine!)
2 - we spend quality time together both alone and with our children
3 - I don't forget to surprise her with romantic gestures and the simple things
My wife and children get the best I have.. our kids are happy and have a love for life. I just don't believe I can keep playing along, waiting until whatever happens next. I love my wife, but I'm not putting up with this crap.
I have screenshots and copies of their messages.. what else do I need to wait for? Again, I do appreciate the advice
Have you asked her why she did it and if she is missing anything in the relationship? You seem to think everything is great, but does she?
Definitely I would suggest MC, women don't usually start crap like that unless there is something they are missing at home.
I would be super vigilant about the transparency and snooping, and be on the look out for any signs about loving you but no in love with you, wanting space, freedom, needing to find herself, etc. Those are all signs she's found someone else.
If she doesn't want to be transparent, she's got something to hide.