Re: Desperately want to end wife's affair
Listen to all the posters here. Hit your wife hard with sanctions. Drawing up a divorce decree is a good idea. You gotta get mean, mad dog mean with her, as Josie Wales would say. If you show any weakness at all she'll call your bluff and make you look like a chump. Don't be afraid of humiliating her in front of your kids.
I really cannot add anything more than what has been said. If you confront her and her lover face to face then make sure you have a buddy with you when you do it.
If she wants to leave, let her go. Not like you would have ever stopped her anyway. But do not leave your house for any reason. She is the one who needs to leave.
I'm sorry you're married to a fool. I hate for this to hapen to anyone.