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Old 03-13-2008, 08:29 AM   #12 (permalink)
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Default Re: She's lost that loving feeling...

Seeing the detail on the phone bill is fine. But denying you changed it was a mistake. Trust is one of the things you will both need to develop in all of this. Make sure the changes you are making are lasting and that you can live with them forever. It may take her time to accept them. This is not a quick fix situation. Also you need to know what her feelings are for TOM. It affects your marriage. Be calm, understanding and don’t get emotional about it when you speak. Great on the weight loss. Keep it up. Good luck
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