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stevewsc · 08-06-2007, 05:01 PM

well lastnight we came to the agreement that she would come get the mower and use my truck to take it home to use then bring it back. i talked to her this morning and said i would get the kids and told her to have a good day. well at 430 my brother in law called and said what is going on with the mower? i said jennifer is getting it today when she gets off. he said well amanda(my wifes sister) said she wanted me to go get it and take it to the house. he said her dad wants me to do it. so i guess what happened was jennifer went to work and told her mother about the exchange and her mother probibly told her not to do it and to not depend on me anymore. the thing that made me mad is she involved them. this marriage has nothing to do with them or anyone but me and her. this is why we are going through this now. she tells them everything about us. they make comments and she beleives their commets. so she calls me at 540. i am off work now and i was gonna come get the kids. so i was thinking. she must not have told her mother that i was getting the kids and used that excuse to get off. well she gets to my house and i ask about the lawnmower deal. she said i will just get it wed. i said how. she said i am getting daddy's truck. i asked why. she said well my car is going back wed. cause i cant afford it. i said oh. well i walked out to my truck got a news article and gave it to her. she asked what it was and i said just something for you to read and think about. walked in the house and shut the door. she sat in the driveway and read it and then left. well at 7pm josh(her sister man) calls me and says that her dad called her mother and told her off cause she let jennifer off early. man oh man the drama in this family. so what steps do i take next people? i really dont know what to do now. i think the best thing to do is just back off and let the lawyers handle it. can anyone give me some pointers? the article from which i am speaking of said this " when you bring children into this world, divorce is not an option for unhappiness. FIXING it is." " you shouldnt get divorced until every rock has been turned over" can anyone help?

08-06-2007, 05:01 PM	#19 (permalink)
stevewsc Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: rockhill, sc Posts: 41	Re: can you help me save my marriage well lastnight we came to the agreement that she would come get the mower and use my truck to take it home to use then bring it back. i talked to her this morning and said i would get the kids and told her to have a good day. well at 430 my brother in law called and said what is going on with the mower? i said jennifer is getting it today when she gets off. he said well amanda(my wifes sister) said she wanted me to go get it and take it to the house. he said her dad wants me to do it. so i guess what happened was jennifer went to work and told her mother about the exchange and her mother probibly told her not to do it and to not depend on me anymore. the thing that made me mad is she involved them. this marriage has nothing to do with them or anyone but me and her. this is why we are going through this now. she tells them everything about us. they make comments and she beleives their commets. so she calls me at 540. i am off work now and i was gonna come get the kids. so i was thinking. she must not have told her mother that i was getting the kids and used that excuse to get off. well she gets to my house and i ask about the lawnmower deal. she said i will just get it wed. i said how. she said i am getting daddy's truck. i asked why. she said well my car is going back wed. cause i cant afford it. i said oh. well i walked out to my truck got a news article and gave it to her. she asked what it was and i said just something for you to read and think about. walked in the house and shut the door. she sat in the driveway and read it and then left. well at 7pm josh(her sister man) calls me and says that her dad called her mother and told her off cause she let jennifer off early. man oh man the drama in this family. so what steps do i take next people? i really dont know what to do now. i think the best thing to do is just back off and let the lawyers handle it. can anyone give me some pointers? the article from which i am speaking of said this " when you bring children into this world, divorce is not an option for unhappiness. FIXING it is." " you shouldnt get divorced until every rock has been turned over" can anyone help?