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blind · 03-13-2008, 10:03 AM

I suppose I assumed you posted her for some different perspectives and maybe even a little advice. If you don't like my advice or thoughts, just ignore them. It just sounded to me like you thought there were some additional issues your wife was dealing with that weren't out in the open yet. I think it may be hard to help resolve the problems without knowing what they are. It can be easy to do more harm than good until the issues are in the open. What you may find is you don't really need to make any of the changes you sarcastically pointed out. Only you can decide what you are willing to do and what you aren't. What may be right for one person could be wrong for the other. I think most people that are tying to save a marriage are trying to get back what they once had, not roll over and accept it. Maybe I wasn't clear.

Best of luck and I'll leave you alone now.

Blind

03-13-2008, 10:03 AM	#18 (permalink)
blind Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 58	Re: My Wife does not Like Me I suppose I assumed you posted her for some different perspectives and maybe even a little advice. If you don't like my advice or thoughts, just ignore them. It just sounded to me like you thought there were some additional issues your wife was dealing with that weren't out in the open yet. I think it may be hard to help resolve the problems without knowing what they are. It can be easy to do more harm than good until the issues are in the open. What you may find is you don't really need to make any of the changes you sarcastically pointed out. Only you can decide what you are willing to do and what you aren't. What may be right for one person could be wrong for the other. I think most people that are tying to save a marriage are trying to get back what they once had, not roll over and accept it. Maybe I wasn't clear. Best of luck and I'll leave you alone now. Blind