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Originally Posted by blind
I suppose I assumed you posted her for some different perspectives and maybe even a little advice. If you don't like my advice or thoughts, just ignore them. It just sounded to me like you thought there were some additional issues your wife was dealing with that weren't out in the open yet. I think it may be hard to help resolve the problems without knowing what they are. It can be easy to do more harm than good until the issues are in the open. What you may find is you don't really need to make any of the changes you sarcastically pointed out. Only you can decide what you are willing to do and what you aren't. What may be right for one person could be wrong for the other. I think most people that are tying to save a marriage are trying to get back what they once had, not roll over and accept it. Maybe I wasn't clear.
Best of luck and I'll leave you alone now.
Blind
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Blind,
I’m not pushing you away, I’m having a conversation with you. I asked you a question, how far is a man suppose to compromise his life?
How healthy is it when those compromises are no longer done out of love but fear! We have the fear of not seeing our children again, “yes dear, yes dear” we are scared of losing half of our assets “yes dear, yes dear” we are scared of paying monthly child support for children we only see on the weekend “yes dear, yes dear”
Basically you stop compromising for her love and now compromise not to get yelled at…. In twenty years of doing that you get to wear a name tag that says We have been married for twenty years…ohhh good for you.
Again the question is, how far is a man suppose to compromise his life? Is life about “yes dear, yes dear ?