| | Re: Pretty Much Have Lost It
There is just no excuse for an affair. You talk about things and work them out BEFORE things go that far. Obviously she has no intentions of cutting the OM out of her life so if I were you..I'd take action and get out of the marriage. Granted, it might hurt the kids at first, but the thing is, you and your wife will have constant arguements forever because there is no longer any trust..and THAT will hurt the kids more than you moving on with your life and finding someone that will make you sincerely happy.