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Old 01-31-2012, 12:57 AM   #951 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by DailyGrind View Post
Soooo......I get home from work today....wife in a REALLY pissy mood. We all sit down to eat dinner....kids are a terror. Turns out they were a real terror when she picked them up.....and now she's in a horrible mood. She just sits there eating...not talking, grumpy as hell. Later, I'm cleaning up the dishes, and she's basically ignoring me. WTF did I do????

So...I ask her 'Why are you mad at ME?' Her: "I'm not....kids just pissed me off tonight"....and she basically stalks out. I'm thinking...so...kids piss you off...I ride in to the rescue....and....You get pissy with me?? And ignore ME?? Wow...way to erase all the positive feelings from the past week. {sigh} Sorry...just venting.
Stop rescuing her, let her feel what she needs to. Walk away, and let her come to you when she calms down. Ask her then if she's feeling better. Don't let it erase any positive feelings you have, she's in bad mood, she told you it's not about you.
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