| | Re: Is this a guy thing?
You're talking about problems but havent actually listed any specific ones. Communication is a constant battle between any two people. Its not a guy thing, its not even a couple thing, its a people thing. Everyone has their own unique way of communicating. Some people are more articulate than others. Thats just something you have to learn and you will have to learn just the same with any one you are with.
What are these other problems? You're sexually not satisfied? Why? Does he have sex with you? If the desire is all still there, but its just not very good, then see a counselor that work with sex lives. Sex is kind of like communication, some times it takes work because everyone is different.
If you arent sexually satisfied because you arent attracted to him or something like that, well then you have problem. Try to be romantic and see if the spark comes back.
How are you not emotionally satisfied?
You say that you could write a list, so write one. You arent going to get very good advice if we dont know what these problems you speak of are. Right now, based on what you've said, it sounds more like you are unhappy because of you and it has very little to do with him. Which is okay, it just means that you need to figure out how to be happy, without relying on someone else to make you happy.