Re: I need HELP!!! confused and hurting
You need to take your dad up on his offer. You are going down a path that is only going to get worse. You need to find a way to take care of yourself and your child, without depending upon your husband. He was forced into a marriage that he didn't want and he will harbor ill feelings toward you and possible your child. I seriously doubt he is in love with you or will be again anytime soon. It is better to leave now.
You also need to realize that abuse isn't just physical, it can also can be mental and emotional.