Originally Posted by VeryMuchConfused
What kind of things (specific) should I do to show this? I'm really clueless and I love him so much I don't want to mess this up. I would spend the rest of my life making this up to him...I just need some examples of specific things he might like as a man to show him this.
Two excellent books for the do-it-yourself approach are "5 Love Languages", and "Getting the Love You Want" (and the workbook to Getting the Love You Want).
If he buys into really wanting to work on the marriage these books might help.