Re: Still not over it
I was cheated on by my now wife back when we were first dating. It was a back and forth situation with her ex whom she left for me. That half justified it enough for me to be able to move forward again with her, I guess. After two and a half almost three years, a marriage and a beautiful baby later, I'm still not completely over it. I know I should for the health of our relationship but I honestly don't think I ever will.
The trick now I've found is to pretend I'm cooler than I really am to spare over punishing her for her past indiscretion.
It's hard to fight the insecure feeling and thoughts that will haunt you for I guess the rest of your life when you go through something like that.
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