Originally Posted by chapparal
I am not saying you should not sacrifice your relationship with Jane. However, Jane is just a red herring to throw you off the scent. Otherwise she would have brought Jane up before. She has never shown any jealousy of Jane in the past right? Spouses are generally jealous of exes though. If she had a problem with Jane you would have heard about it. Was she mentioned in any of her texts?
Do not let on in any way how you know about her texts etc. Just say something like, you know you can't keep a secret around here.
Did you have anything to do with her breaking up with Joe? Could he have revenge as a motive? Has he dissed her marriage to her?
I don't know much about their relationship, but I do not believe they dated long, and they met in another state. According to her (when we first started dating), he still liked her but she just didn't connect with him and she dated several other people after him. She has things in common with him though (like marathon running) and they talk about that stuff alot. I believe she broke it off with him and moved to another state. He does not live here but i think he has friends or family here and visits from time to time (couple times a year maybe).