Re: On the verge of losing her.
Some people relate pets to children. STrange but very true. I would have though holding a bit more of the money to take care of them and it was almost as if she was leaving the door open for you to test you. Maybe she wanted to have the sense of you being around while she needed you and this will force her to make up her mind of what it will be like without you.
You still could have played it cool either way but I just thought it strange.
I do think it sounds like giving her space and time will work in your advantage or atleast better then any other option.
keep us up to date and don't force things.
draconis
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