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isla~mama · 02-01-2012, 08:11 PM

I should also add-- I don't have a problem with him looking at porn (but I'm not sure if he does anymore) and have even offered to watch it with him (he said no).

And, my main question (which I forgot to ask) is: should I take him up on the pity sex offers, in the hopes that it might lead to something genuine? I am afraid of being hurt even more-- say I take him up on the offer, only to have him "disappear" again and then I have to get used to being sexless all over again?

02-01-2012, 08:11 PM	#2 (permalink)
isla~mama Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 161	Re: 16 yrs sexless marriage I should also add-- I don't have a problem with him looking at porn (but I'm not sure if he does anymore) and have even offered to watch it with him (he said no). And, my main question (which I forgot to ask) is: should I take him up on the pity sex offers, in the hopes that it might lead to something genuine? I am afraid of being hurt even more-- say I take him up on the offer, only to have him "disappear" again and then I have to get used to being sexless all over again?