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isla~mama · 02-01-2012, 08:26 PM

He has his own computer and uses it-- in plain view of everyone-- for work. But he is fine with my using it, if I wanted to. I have never sensed he is hiding anything from me concerning his communication-- phone, internet, email.

I also know that suddenly wanting sex after not wanting it can be a sign of an affair. He's also taking more interest in his appearance (another sign).

But as I've said, I did offer him to go to another woman if he was really not attracted to me, so why would he hide it. I don't want an open relationship but would consider it if that's what he "needed."

He just doesn't seem to want, or enjoy sex.

02-01-2012, 08:26 PM	#5 (permalink)
isla~mama Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 161	Re: 16 yrs sexless marriage He has his own computer and uses it-- in plain view of everyone-- for work. But he is fine with my using it, if I wanted to. I have never sensed he is hiding anything from me concerning his communication-- phone, internet, email. I also know that suddenly wanting sex after not wanting it can be a sign of an affair. He's also taking more interest in his appearance (another sign). But as I've said, I did offer him to go to another woman if he was really not attracted to me, so why would he hide it. I don't want an open relationship but would consider it if that's what he "needed." He just doesn't seem to want, or enjoy sex.