| | Re: 16 yrs sexless marriage
He has his own computer and uses it-- in plain view of everyone-- for work. But he is fine with my using it, if I wanted to. I have never sensed he is hiding anything from me concerning his communication-- phone, internet, email.
I also know that suddenly wanting sex after not wanting it can be a sign of an affair. He's also taking more interest in his appearance (another sign).
But as I've said, I did offer him to go to another woman if he was really not attracted to me, so why would he hide it. I don't want an open relationship but would consider it if that's what he "needed."
He just doesn't seem to want, or enjoy sex.