memyselfandi

I think you already know the answer to your question regarding if he's having an affair. He's taken off his wedding ring for starters..and the scratches on his rear...there ya go!!

You are not at all a controlling person..you are a WIFE!! He has certain responsibilities to you because you ARE his wife. If he can't handle those responsibilities, then he shouldn't be married.

And if he was so concerned about his money and you taking him for half if you got divorced...what was he thinking when he started this affair? That you'd never find out about it?

I hate to say this but he's stupid. First of all he takes off his wedding ring (screaming infidelity at it's finest!!); then takes off his clothes in front of you while he has "b****" scratches on his rear end!! Does he really think you're THAT blind???

I would divorce his sorry rear (no pun intended..those scratches probably hurt pretty bad the next day..lol) and take what you have coming regarding cash. You certainly deserve it honey!! Move on with your life, learn to love yourself..and in the future, I hope you find a loving man that will love you for the wonderful person you are!!