Originally Posted by PHTlump
We will have to disagree on the definition of abuse. I think saying mean things to someone is not the same as beating someone.
Murder is not the same as battery, but they're both violent crimes.
Verbal abuse is still abuse. Not the same as physical abuse, but still abuse.
Funny how easily the word "abuse" gets thrown out here when it comes to a wife denying her husband sex, but berating and insulting one's spouse is not abuse. Hmmmm.
I won't justify her cheating, but neither will I join the chorus of voices here excusing his awful behavior and his prominent role in the disintegration of his marriage.
To borrow a common phrase around here, you guys are "rug sweeping" his actions. Posted via Mobile Device