Green-Moo

I've no idea what to suggest really, but I can empathise with you. An ex boyfriend of mine wouldn't leave me alone after I ended it & actually tried to kill himself whilst on the phone to me.

I obviously didn't do the right thing, otherwise things wouldn't have got to the stage that they did. I really hope that this situation resolves itself soon, but I'd advise that you inform your husband as soon as possible. Better he hears from you than from this other chap.