Originally Posted by Sleepless_in_Vancouver
I dislike that you imply I would say if the roles were reversed, he'd need to go see a doctor.
I did not imply you would say this. I said "If the roles were reversed people
would be saying he should see a doctor."
And just because a guy does not want sex does not mean he has some type of ED.
Some people can have great lives and not a worry in the world and still not be interested in sex. Everybody is different. They do not see it as important. No matter what you do they will never get it. They rather brush the dog's hair before thinking about sex. In fact they do not even think about sex.
Often if a guy is complaining about his wife he is analyzed quickly that he may be the reason for the problem.(insert long list of things to win her over then have her see a doctor) If the woman is complaining about her husband the guy is still at fault.(see doctor first and short list) It is just a pattern I see.
Sometimes people marry to somebody that is just a good provider and are not attracted to them sexually. Good luck getting an honest answer from these type of people.