Husban441

Thank you everyone for such a quick response. One thing more their still is love, i am trying in my last effort to have my wife show that she loves me. We also do have two boys that are in school and will need to cause the least damage to their life.
One of the issues my wife brings up is that when we married i had her sign a pre-num because i owned a home an i own businesses. Upon divorce the home we now live in is community property but our 2 vacations homes and commercial property is my sole and separate property in addition to company funds. in addition the pre-nup does not provide for spousal support. I do understand that this sound terrible . . . how can you commit to a marriage and at the same time negotiate your divorce… I call it being responsible and taking the threat of “I am going to take you for all you got” out of the fight. I also think this is some of the reason why my wife would be open to work thing out but as one of you said you have to be prepared to walk away to make changes (paraphrasing of course).