Originally Posted by waiwera
He said he believed marriage was hard work and that you need to regulary monitor the health of your marriage and do some work in the areas that need attention.... bit like tuning the engine on your car.
Good advice. I think the problem for some people is that the amount of work involved is vast. It'd be like having a car and having to replace the alternator one week, strip the brakes the next, weld up the subframe the next week, replace the head gasket the week after that, to the point that whenever they're out in the car they're so worried the thing is going to conk out that they can't enjoy it, or just don't dare do anything, or decide they can't keep spending all their time, money and energy keeping it on the road...