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Lately my husband and I have been fighting A LOT. We're in the process of selling our house but I know it hasn't been that stressful. Well, basically my husband is very, very traditional. I stay home and clean and take care of our child. But he's just mean. Downright mean. I'm pretty sure he's been stealing my friends things while they've been over (like a ring, an iPod and yesterday a bra) and he treats me like crap. For example, he won't buy me any groceries. He thinks it's because I've been smoking, but I haven't. All I have in my pantry is meatballs and chicken noodle soup. I'm pregnant! I need more than that! Not to mention my 20-month-old!

And since it's been like this I've been going over to my parent's for dinner with my DD. But my husband got irritated because I was taking "his" car (which is my car that he paid for) everywhere. Thus last night he took the battery out of my car.

Then he took my cell phone because I had taken 5 dollars out of his wallet to get me and my toddler some food yesterday. :-(

I'm so confused. I don't even know what to do, where to start, who to talk to. I'd try to talk to my mom, but she is very traditional as well so she believes as long as he's not hitting me or cheating on me I should be able to work through anything. I'm 12 weeks pregnant and I'm scared I'm going to lose this baby not only because of all this mental stress, but from hunger! And yes, I've tried talking to him, writing him letters, everything under the sun. But I get nothing. No response. He's just a military man with no emotions. Help.