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Originally Posted by brokenbythis  He said fine, marriage over. |
That pretty much says it all right there. He either means it or he's bluffing but does it really make a difference? The end result is the same either way - the OW is more important than you are.
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Originally Posted by brokenbythis Am I being unreasonable? I do not want to be a doormat, and I do not want to share my husband with another "friend". On the other hand I do not want to destroy my family, my son will be devastated. |
Hell no you're not being unreasonable - you're completely right. He's doing the typical cheater thing of wanting to have his cake and eat it to all the while trying to convince you that you're crazy for having a problem with it. I certainly don't know the laws in Calif. but never would I accept his take on it, go find your own lawyer to talk to. You should be able to get one to answer just your basic questions for little or no money.
