Originally Posted by brokenbythis
I can't afford a lawyer, I have no money of my own. I will have to use the self help desk at the county courthouse.
Her husband knows, knows that she has a "friend" and apparently he is ok with it because she does not have romantic feelings towards my husband.
you have shared assets, yes you can afford a lawyer. Besides the initial consultation is usually free
then make sure the husband knows that is NOT just friends