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Tover26 · 02-07-2012, 03:45 PM

Sure, it's the internet. Suspect it if that's what you want to do. NotLikeYou, feel free to avoid my thread if it bothers you enough to post on it.

Facebook is done. Emails are done. The only active account I have is the one I use for work purposes. It's my main account for recruiters, headhunters, and consulting work. Shutting it down right now, or back when this originally started mid/late Dec would be and still is disasterous to my being able to work with these people and find a new job. Same with my tel#. Should I have my family and friends and managers all change their email addresses too?

When I post about this stuff, it's because family and friends were emailed by him and they forwarded it to us. Meanwhile, this most recent was my work email that I am not going to shut down. At a certain point, were I to want to go to the FBI for example, my best chance of "catching" him is to give him rope to hang himself and shutting accounts down seems a bit counter to that no? My wife has agreed to a post-nup conditioned on her continuing treatment and avoidance of relapse and... on that point, this MOFO is my best shot at catching her if she relapses and returns to him. I'm not shutting them down. I'm not going off the grid.

Yes, it keeps getting bad and that's partly because Dday #2 was 12/9 just barely 2 months ago. Looking at this thread it's hard for me to remember that some of this stuff is pretty fresh. My wife's last bad relapse was 1/9, just a month ago. If there weren't kids involved, I'd be gone and off the grid.

02-07-2012, 03:45 PM	#286 (permalink)
Tover26 Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: DC Posts: 146	Re: Lesbian/Bi/Serial... oh my Sure, it's the internet. Suspect it if that's what you want to do. NotLikeYou, feel free to avoid my thread if it bothers you enough to post on it. Facebook is done. Emails are done. The only active account I have is the one I use for work purposes. It's my main account for recruiters, headhunters, and consulting work. Shutting it down right now, or back when this originally started mid/late Dec would be and still is disasterous to my being able to work with these people and find a new job. Same with my tel#. Should I have my family and friends and managers all change their email addresses too? When I post about this stuff, it's because family and friends were emailed by him and they forwarded it to us. Meanwhile, this most recent was my work email that I am not going to shut down. At a certain point, were I to want to go to the FBI for example, my best chance of "catching" him is to give him rope to hang himself and shutting accounts down seems a bit counter to that no? My wife has agreed to a post-nup conditioned on her continuing treatment and avoidance of relapse and... on that point, this MOFO is my best shot at catching her if she relapses and returns to him. I'm not shutting them down. I'm not going off the grid. Yes, it keeps getting bad and that's partly because Dday #2 was 12/9 just barely 2 months ago. Looking at this thread it's hard for me to remember that some of this stuff is pretty fresh. My wife's last bad relapse was 1/9, just a month ago. If there weren't kids involved, I'd be gone and off the grid.