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JustMe · 08-07-2007, 08:26 AM

I find that when my h talks to me about what's gone on in his day, how he feels about whatever family "drama" is going on (usually with one of our sets of parents there's something brewing) or just the stuff that I know he really doesn't want to talk about, or just is open with me about all that yucky stuff guys don't like to share, it reminds me that he does need me and cherish me as a friend and confidant. I feel much closer to him in that he'll share with me those things that I know he won't share with others. Also, when he'll listen to me talk about stuff like that. I'm the sensitive one, and when something's going on in the family I worry and need someone to talk it over with. I appreciate him being there for me, even though I know he really doesn't care much whether my sister is speaking to my dad at the moment or not! lol
Is that the kind of "trust" you're getting at?

08-07-2007, 08:26 AM	#23 (permalink)
JustMe Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Florida Posts: 57	Re: can you help me save my marriage I find that when my h talks to me about what's gone on in his day, how he feels about whatever family "drama" is going on (usually with one of our sets of parents there's something brewing) or just the stuff that I know he really doesn't want to talk about, or just is open with me about all that yucky stuff guys don't like to share, it reminds me that he does need me and cherish me as a friend and confidant. I feel much closer to him in that he'll share with me those things that I know he won't share with others. Also, when he'll listen to me talk about stuff like that. I'm the sensitive one, and when something's going on in the family I worry and need someone to talk it over with. I appreciate him being there for me, even though I know he really doesn't care much whether my sister is speaking to my dad at the moment or not! lol Is that the kind of "trust" you're getting at?