| | Lessons Learned ?
In January, we decided to separate.
I discovered affair in May and we were trying to work things out.
For the record, I advocated for a softer approach as the BS here but I realize now this approach does not work.
I am looking forward to the next phase of my life and glad the uncertainty has lifted.
Kids in the picture will do my best to make the transition as smooth as possible for them.
Part of me will always wonder what if I had taken more of the advice offered here than I actually did.
I am interested in people who have gone through the separation phase and what if any changes are to be expected as far as the interaction between me and my spouse/ex-spouse
Also, lately since I have gotten to this point and have regained self esteem from a very low point, I am finding that I have been a little careless with my interaction with women. How to manage this going forward. Probably need to lay low for a while but easier said than done.