Originally Posted by sigma1299
Do you KNOW the hard drive was destroyed or did he just tell you that? Obviously you're both tech savvy so tech spying is going to be difficult. If he had a money making venture on that hard drive I'm hard pressed to believe he nuked it with out creating an image or back up of it somewhere, or just snatched it out of that box and stuck it in a drawer.
Regardless if he destroyed something that made him money, or wants you to believe that he did then he's hiding something that he really doesn't want you to see. He likely figuring that you're not going to drop it and force him into some kind of revelation to you so my personal bet is that he's out crafting something that is adequately bad to get you to accept it as the whole truth but that in reality is still not the whole enchilada.
Have you checked to see if that business site is down? If he nuked the hard drive it should be off line right?
You say you haven't spoken for a week and have gone dark. Has one of you moved out?
He just told me that and I was shocked. The site is online, but he used to check emails/orders every night after work, and now just comes home and sits in the dark.
I either find something else to do or stay in the library where there is an extra bed. He makes no attempt to bring up the problem other than repeat the official story, if pressed. Its ridiculous! He is a legendary sulker.
The last time we talked, DAYS ago, he repeated the official story and said "If you want to throw away 8 years of marriage because of one mistake, that's up to you, I'm not going to rehash this"
I said "WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?!"
He didn't answer, and hasn't spoken since.
I said fine, don't speak, at least it means I won't have to hear anymore lies.
The problem is, HE KNOWS what is going on, and I just found out, so I don't have any idea what he did, for how long or ANYTHING other than our entire life is just some kind of wierd Mexican standoff, everything has just stopped.